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How to impress people? Being elegant is the answer; it makes you look feminine, attractive, and mature! This article will show you how to be just that.

Part 1
Looking Elegant

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    Up Turn Threadbare Denim Basic Shorts Threadbare Be clean. Practice good hygiene. Take a shower when you need to and keep your hair clean. Brush your teeth and use deodorant, to keep yourself smelling fresh.
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    Be tidy. Keep your hair brushed, your nails reasonably trimmed, and any excess body hair should also be carefully maintained to reasonable lengths.
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    Use subtle makeup. Use only enough concealer, foundation and powder to even your skin tone and cut down on shine. Eye shadow and lip colors should be subtle and use neutral tones line browns and grays. Eyeliner and mascara should be minimal.
    • There are occasions, however, where bolder lip colors may be appropriate. If you are going out for a formal evening, for example, bright red lips may be warranted.
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    Choose sleek hairstyles. When you think elegant women you usually think Audrey Hepburn, Veronica Lake, or Nicole Kidman. And what do they have in common? That sleek, beautiful hair, of course. Choose hairstyles which show off the satin quality of your hair and compliment your features and dress style. This will give you a more elegant look.
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    Get your nails done. Good choices for nail polish are pale pink, clear, or a french manicure. But remember that any colour can look elegant, it all depends on how you carry it off. Don't rule out any colour - including black - unless you don't like it. Look at some photos of celebrities' nails at events. They wear all colours, including black, green, and orange, and many of them still look elegant.
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    Use good perfume. You may not see when someone smells nice but it will form a certain picture in your mind. Leave a lasting impression by using a subtle perfume, applied correctly. Elegant top notes include scents like:
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    Stand tall. Having good posture will go a long way towards being perceived as elegant. Work on your posture and make sure that you are standing nice and tall. This will also make you look thinner and curvier.
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Part 1 Quiz

Appearance plays a large role in achieving elegance. If you’re aiming for elegance, what’s a good hairstyle?

Nope. Short and spiky may be exciting, but it doesn’t exude elegance the way a shiny, flowing style may. There’s a better option out there!

Yes! This would be a great idea. In most of the classic styles, the ladies have flowing hair that shouts elegance. Be sure to also keep your dress, nail color, and makeup in mind when getting your hair together. Read on for another quiz question.

Not exactly. Some women can pull off the bob, and perhaps you can, but on a general basis, a bob is less likely to feel elegant in the way something flowing and shiny would. Choose another answer!

Part 2
Dressing Elegantly

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    Wear nice clothes. Avoid clothes which look overly casual, dirty, stained, or ruined. Don't wear clothes that have holes or otherwise look distressed. Try to go out in nice - smart but simple- clothes when you run errands.
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    Wear classic cuts. Avoid trendy clothes like bell-bottom jeans or over-sized shoulder pads. Instead, opt for classic cuts on most items of clothing. This will keep you looking timelessly elegant. Knee length skirts with even hem lines, tailored button-down shirts in men's style, and knee-length trench coats are among a large number of classic cut items.
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    Wear clothes that fit. Make sure that the clothes you do have fit. They should not be too small (showing or creating bulges) or too large (hanging from your frame). Don't get married to a size, every time you try on new clothes, also try on a size up and a size down. Get items tailored, if you can, to ensure an even better fit.
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    Choose quality fabrics. Lean away from cheap acrylic material or cheap cotton and opt for clothing made from more luxurious materials. This will show and make your clothing look more expensive, even if it isn't. Silk, satin, modal, cashmere, Chantilly or other quality lace, many sheer fabrics, and limited velvet are all acceptable options. Thick materials that add bulk should usually be avoided, as these will detract from your smooth lines.
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    Choose high contrast or classic colors. When choosing colors, go for high contrast colors that are very light and dark compared to each other (red, white and black, for example). Classic neutral colors also work well (grey, beige, navy, plum, emerald green, champagne pink, etc.).
    • Other elegant color combinations include blue and gold, pink and white, and white and teal/seafoam.
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    Keep it simple. Keep your outfits simple: not too many accessories, not too many layers. Avoid patterns and pattern mixing. Don't get overly showy, either. Jewelry should be simple and should go with what you are wearing and doing. Don't wear anything that is too dressy for what you're doing: go for nice, but not unreasonable.
    • For example, a cocktail dress is a bit much for going grocery shopping but a black or navy pencil skirt, a cream-colored sweater and brown jacket and boots are about right. Sweats would be the bad choice; too casual.
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    Accessorize strategically. Choose accessories which compliment your outfit without going over the top. Accessories should also compliment your features and physique. For example, avoid wide or large earrings if you have a big face, or wear vertically striped stockings to make your legs look longer and thinner.
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    Keep it classy. Don't wear clothes that reveal too much skin, are too tight, or use materials which look low-class (leopard print, fuzzy materials, lamé, etc). Dressing this way can make you look cheap or like an escort. It will also make you look like you're trying too hard. Dress classy by following the advice above and avoiding these pitfalls, and you'll look elegant all the time.
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Part 2 Quiz

True or False: Keep your accessories simple if you want to maintain a classy look.

Absolutely. You should be very deliberate in your jewelry picks. Keep it simple and make sure it goes well with what you’re wearing. The same should go for your outfits. Avoid loud patterns and textiles to keep it classy. Read on for another quiz question.

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Nope. You definitely want to keep it classy, which means toned down jewelry that matches what you’re wearing. Be deliberate with your choices and make sure it all fits together well. The same goes for your clothes, as you should avoid loud patterns and less classy fabrics. Try again...

Part 3
Acting Elegant

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    Speak exceptionally well. Use proper grammar, a broad vocabulary, avoid contractions and colloquialisms, and enunciate when you speak. This will make you come across as classy and elegant, a real lady. If you aren't in the habit of speak well like this, practice while you are alone, possibly in front of a mirror.
    • Do not feel like you have to take on a different accent in order to sound more elegant. The accent is rarely as much of a problem as vocabulary and grammar.
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    Stay calm at all times. Do not get overly emotional, either very sad (dramatic crying) or angry (yelling at people and making a scene). This will undo every bit of elegance in an instant. Instead, be calm and relaxed.
    • Remember: if you're not going to die (and neither is anyone else) it's probably not that big a deal. Breathe and take things one step at a time.
    • If you find yourself unable to stay calm, excuse yourself and go somewhere private until you calm down.
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    Threadbare Shorts Basic Denim Turn Threadbare Up Act like you don't care. Like not getting too emotional, you should also give off an air of not caring. This will make you seem more classy and elegant. Getting overly excited or enthusiastic can easily make you seem child-like and immature.
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    Be polite to everyone you meet, whether you think they deserve it or not. Don't be passive-aggressive or sarcastic when things go wrong. Just get through all situations with perfect politeness. Treat everyone as if your grandmother were watching you and there was a nice piece of candy in it for you.
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    Be as graceful as you can be. Walk like a supermodel no matter where you are or how you're dressed. Take care not to fall or trip when walking in high heels Don't try to dance above your skill level. If you want to improve your grace, then practice walking, in heels, up and down stairs, etc. You can also practice your hand and leg movements in a full length mirror.
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    Be confident and act confident. Of course you don't have to actually be confident (for a lot of people, it's mostly an act) but act as confident as you can. Tell yourself you're beautiful, intelligent, and that you know what you're doing...because you are and you do! Project confidence out to others by not constantly apologizing, for pursuing the things that you want, even if they aren't popular,
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    Have excellent manners. Real ladies have perfect manners. Practice good manners as you go about your day and especially when you eat. Don't ever burp or fart in public. Hold doors open for others and wait your turn for services. Drive courteously. And of course, eat without making a mess or being gross.
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    Be intelligent. Don't act dumb just for the sake of it. Sometimes people act dumb to stand out. While you may stand out that way, it won't be in a way you want! Be careful also not to act like you know everything about every subject. Talk about subjects you truly know about or say you don't know much about the topic. Your honesty will be appreciated.
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Part 3 Quiz

Which of these is not something you should do if you want to appear elegant?

Nope. You should definitely be nice to people, even if you don’t think they deserve it. Being polite generally encourages people to respect you. Try again...

Wrong! If it doesn’t seem like things get to you easily, you stand a better chance of exuding the elegance you desire. Click on another answer to find the right one...

Incorrect! Supermodels are trained to be elegant, so it’s certainly not a bad idea to follow in their footsteps. Click on another answer to find the right one...

Right! You don’t want to act stupid in order to get attention from folks. If you want to appear elegant, you should also work to appear intelligent. Read on for another quiz question.

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    If you’re trying to be elegant, start by wearing classic styles of clothing, like knee-length skirts and tailored button-down shirts, and choosing clothes made from high-quality fabrics, like silk and satin. Additionally, go for a subtle look with your makeup by using neutral colors on your eyes and lips and keeping eyeliner and mascara to a minimum. Get your nails done if you can, and style your hair to look as sleek as possible. Also, try to stand tall and maintain good posture, which can make you look elegant.

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    • Read books and the broadsheet newspapers to improve on language, grammar and vocabulary.
    • Learn about different cultures.
    • Travel extensively, if you can afford it.
    • Exercise regularly and appreciate your unique shape.
    • Think and speak well of others.
    • Try smiling more often because this helps you seem more friendly, approachable and positive. Smiling in a natural subtle way is one of the prominent and defining characteristics of elegant people.
    • Don't talk too much and don't try to fit in,try to differentiate yourself.
    • Educate yourself in at least the basics of the arts. For instance, Visual art is the most popular domain to be familiar with because intelligent and well thought-out conversations can easily be held surrounding the subject.

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